Tonight marks a special occasion. It is one of the most exciting for me, because for our ministry, it is a specific indication of marked growth. Tonight, I have the honor of ordaining a new elder into our congregation. It is a great responsibility as he and his wife will now be an extension of the pastoral arm of our church family. They will be charged to lead well, to live truth, to walk in humility, and to walk in honor.
During the ordination ceremony, there is a specific apostolic charge that will be administered to our new elder. As I prepare for this event, I began to consider that charge, and the effect it would have, not only on his life and the life of his family, but the effect such a charge would have on God’s children, period…if only they would embrace it. In consideration of this, I thought I would share a portion of that charge with you.
“The Word of God tells us that the needy are with us always. There is always a need to fill. One responsibility that you must embrace is to recognize the true need and fill it according to God's purpose. You must learn to recognize when people draw on you, they are either looking for a fish or for an education. You must know which is appropriate to give and when to give it. You must also know that tending to the needs and spiritual leadership of others is one of, if not the most taxing thing you will ever encounter. Each time you minister, you impart life. Each time you impart life, life flows through you and even from you. Without a rejuvenation process, this new life will drain you and your family.”
For this reason it is important to care for the spiritual and physical needs of you and your family. Make it a priority to renew your relationship with the Holy Spirit and with your wife, daily. Establish specific time to worship and to draw nourishment from the Word of God. As you seek His counsel and guidance for leadership, remember to strengthen your personal relationship with Him as well.
As you minister to others, you cannot help but "feel the weight" of their life situations. As you experience the effects of that weight, your wife experiences it as well. As she walks with you, she now walks in the light of the calling on your life. They price you pay, she also pays. Your first ministry is to her. Paul's instruction to love your wife as Christ loves the church will take on a whole new meaning. More than ever, it is now important to place diligent effort toward your marriage, and guard it against attack of the enemy.”
Lead well. In today's society, truth is often made to look like error, while error is widely proclaimed as truth. One of the greatest responsibilities you now embrace is to keep people mindful of what is true. Your responsibility before this body is to the visionary and to the vision. Keep that vision in front of the people. When they stray from it, lead them back to it. When their understanding of truth becomes distorted, bring clarity. Shine a light in love that will restore hope and righteousness.”
Live the truth. Your life is a demonstration of kindness. It resides in your heart and in your speech. Persuasion is more effective than force, so, lead by kind example. Rejoice with the body in their successes. Weep when they weep. Demonstrate that a life of righteousness is not a dream, but a reality.”
Guard your character and your integrity. When disappointment arises, take it to God and not to the congregation; nor to your family. Demonstrate the trust you have in your apostle and in the leaders who stand alongside of you. As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.”
Finally, know that you not only carry the heart of God, you are entrusted to carry my heart, as your Apostle. As God has entrusted the leadership of this people to me, I extend that trust to you. As you guard your heart against any attack of the enemy, I ask you to guard my heart. Love the people as God loves them and as I love them. Recognize that your service to the body is not simply about tending their need. Every effort made toward them is also an effort made to lift my hands, as Aaron and Hur did for Moses in their day of battle.”
As we labor together, we will be victorious in the fulfillment of the purpose God has established for us on the earth.”
An elder leads by instruction, by application, and by the example of his own life. This charge is administered to the elders of our church, that they may demonstrate excellence in their kingdom walk – not only to the people who are in their entrusted care, but to everyone who is in some way connected to their life. Theirs is to demonstrate a Christ-like lifestyle.
As you consider this charge and its effects, consider how this instruction can bring change to your life. It will not only promote balance, it will lead you to what one of my dearest mentor’s used to call “A More Excellent Way.” Every action of your life carries with it a direct effect on someone or something. As you consider the balance of your life, it will force you to consider the actions of your life. You will begin to measure each action by its effect and its purpose. In short, you will live with purpose – on purpose.
I hope this speaks to your heart and calls you to rise to the challenge of “the more excellent way” in your own life.
Be blessed.