Dr. Timothy Byler
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The greatest battlefield you will ever encounter and the most valuable piece of land for which you will ever fight is the one square foot of real estate between your ears. Every battle is won or lost in the mind.
You are a spirit being just as you are a natural being. As such, there are things you battle in the flesh (I.e., that piece of cake or the doughnut that beckons you to feast upon their deliciousness). There are also battles in the spirit. Many do not know how to even recognize these battles because of the insight necessary to see them. In reality, these battles are usually connected and at some level, both are present simultaneously. Every spiritual battle will manifest itself in the physical realm - with temptation, frustration, or worse - fear. The playing field for those battles doesn’t usually stay to the physical side or the spiritual side. They tend to cross into the neutral zone - the mind.
You are a three part being, consisting of spirit, soul, and body. Your soul is your mind, your will, your intellect, and your emotion. The soul is where battles are fought and won. It is for this reason that negativity becomes one of the tools of the enemy. It is a subtle tool. It is often wielded from without. Someone says something to you to pull you down or to distract you. They criticize and judge, and do so in a way that will cause you to begin to question your own validity. While not always easily fought, that sort of attack is frontal and usually recognizable. You see it coming and the battle becomes one of “how do I keep myself from giving in to it?” You know deep down exactly what it is and yet, your mind somehow finds a way to validate it.
The best way to fight that sort of negativity is to hold to truth. You must remember what God has made clear concerning HIS belief in YOU! Yeah, I said that correctly. We know we believe in God. We don’t always remember that part of faith is in knowing how much He believes in us…
so much so that He paid a premium to protect His investment!
When the negative things come at you, you have to remain focused. Focus on your vision, on your purpose, and even on your dream. The negativity is designed to take you off your game and to get you to second guess yourself. It will cause you to shift your footing, slip, slow your momentum, or even lose your way.
That isn’t the biggest danger of negativity. The biggest danger of negativity is that after it comes from the outside, it starts working FROM the inside. Inside negativity justifies us. It validates us when we feel disrespected or devalued. It is perhaps the only weapon that can be used to penetrate you, make you feel rearmed, and continue to damage you, even as you work to wield it.
In Romans 12:17, Paul instructs us to “never repay anyone with evil for evil, but to respect what is right in the sight of everyone.” He goes on to tell us that “if possible - as much as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.” For a long time, my initial thought always gravitated to “Well, I tried but he isn’t making it possible!” That sort of misses the point.
Paul warns us against letting the negativity of others eat at us from the inside. Consider: if negative people around you need to come to peace before you can find YOUR peace, your peace is now subject to them. It is no longer simply dependent on God. THAT is control. That is the place where others obtain the ability to control you. And in that moment, they have not stolen the control. Rather, you have released the high ground. You let them get you.
The carnal weapon against the negativity of others is YOUR negativity. It is highly dangerous - even toxic! When you return the negativity of others with your own negativity, you relinquish your ability to be effective in the spiritual battle. You ignore your spiritual armament. You become entrenched in a carnal battle. You will even become skilled at it and win battle after battle - never realizing that in reality, you are losing the war!
In Matthew 16, Jesus explained this carefully. The context of His words is often missed. “For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?” This has been pushed specifically to how we “accomplish” in life in order to go to Heaven. But if you read through all of it, Jesus was teaching about the soul battle - the spiritual mind vs. the carnal mind. Just prior to what He said, Jesus identified the difference between seeing things spiritually and seeing things carnally. He commended Peter on his ability to see who Jesus was through spiritual eyes rather than the eyes of man, and instructed the disciples that the very foundation upon which the church would be built was that ability to see into Heaven in order to operate successfully in the Earth. A moment later, when Jesus begin to share the negative circumstances He was about to face, Peter’s defenses rose. He valiantly pledged to defend Jesus against those who would try to destroy Him but Jesus rebuked Him, saying, “Get behind Me Satan…you are not setting your mind of a God’s interests but on man’s.”
Breaking negativity starts from the inside out.
The negativity of others will always be present. There will always be an enemy who will try to discourage you, disparage you, or destroy you. That negativity cannot stop who you are. Nor can it stop the divine purpose for which you have been appointed! YOUR willingness to pick up the weapon of negativity CAN hinder your divine purpose and stop you from being who God has designed you to be.
GUARD YOURSELF! BREAK NEGATIVITY! Limit yourself from spending time and energy with negative people. You don’t have to love them less. You may have to love them from further away. It isn’t that they will bring you down. They will feed your own toxic negativity. Second, guard yourself against being negative. Do not yield to the temptation to be negative. You are gifted with a pass to the High Road. Take it! It is a better ride. Third, draw closer to God! Praise is the best weapon against negativity. Thank God for the purpose He has written for you and for the battle that He fights on your behalf. Thank Him for the strategy to win the war, not just survive the battle.
STAY POSITIVE!
FORWARD!